To my friend out there:

• All conflicts stem from misunderstandings
  
• Don't make assumptions – ever
  
• Everyone has a reason for doing something
  
• Something that may seem trivial to you, may be extremely important to someone else
  
• If you are angry, then you probably aren't in a position to make decisions
  
• Patience is a virtue – you need to wait for things to happen
  
• Things aren't going to change by themselves
  

Also, people never change. As much as we try to, we will always the same person. If we could change, then we would all aim to meet our ideals, most people would be more or less the same, and the whole idea of identity would just be lost with nothing defining us as a person. I guess it just comes down to learning about our good points, and being able to make full use of them. So stop trying to change, stop dwelling on bad things, and instead think about all the positives and build on them.

Woot, crap post

- tonia

To my friend out there:

• All conflicts stem from misunderstandings
  
• Don't make assumptions – ever
  
• Everyone has a reason for doing something
  
• Something that may seem trivial to you, may be extremely important to someone else
  
• If you are angry, then you probably aren't in a position to make decisions
  
• Patience is a virtue – you need to wait for things to happen
  
• Things aren't going to change by themselves
  

Also, people never change. As much as we try to, we will always the same person. If we could change, then we would all aim to meet our ideals, most people would be more or less the same, and the whole idea of identity would just be lost with nothing defining us as a person. I guess it just comes down to learning about our good points, and being able to make full use of them. So stop trying to change, stop dwelling on bad things, and instead think about all the positives and build on them.

Woot, crap post

- tonia