GUYS
Wednesday, May 26, 2010
I don't think I've done a post about the opposite gender yet. So here goes :)
It's interesting how different things appeal to different people, and how some aspects of a person are attractive to others, while a complete turn-off for others. I guess that kinda shows that since everyone think differently, and has conflicting views on things, its not really possible for everyone in the whole world to like you, so don't get too cut down when you find out that someone doesn't like you, because its pretty inevitable. Anyway, that is beside the point. GUYS.
I've always wanted to define hot guy and cute guys. What makes a guy hot and what makes a guy cute? I don't think that there really is a definition, and that its more of a first impression kind of thing. I guess for me :
HOT : I imagine those models in those really dodgy advertisements at the back of magazines that advertise like dating sites and stuff, where the guys are like built and the picture's taken in low light, and they have like olive oil all over them. And they're like cocky and they're good at sport, and they're bad-asses
CUTE : I've always thought of cute as the 'boy-next-door' kinda guy. They're nice, and they do wise things, and appearance-wise they're kinda dorky.
I'm not sure ... what do you guys think?
I don't even know why built guys are appealing. I don't particularly find it attractive when a guy is like completely ripped and stuff. Its dangerous as well. I mean, he could be hugging you, and without realising his own strength, stop your circulation.
But yeah, Oh! I also want to clarify, that for some reason the guys in the grade seem to think that the chicks really like deep and thoughtful guys who like to talk about philosophical stuff. Well, that is not true. Sometimes when they do that it just makes them even more fake, and kinda try hardy. I think that if a guy wants to get a girl, they should just keep it real. And by that, I don't mean pretend to keep it real, but ACTUALLY being themselves, and not worried about how other people think of them. Oh! And they have to be really nice as well.
I don't know though. I everyone likes different things. But yeah, if you like someone, you should ask them out/tell them you like them. Because you don't really have anything to lose. It may be a bit awkward at first, and slightly (or very) embarassing, but seriously. You never know if they like you back or not if you don't ask them. And like, if you get rejected, no one going to laugh at you. I mean, rejection happens to everyone. You'll get over it after a while. Time heals all wounds, and plus, you're probably not going to see most of the grade after 1.5 years. So don't be embarassed and start asking people out! (SEMI FORMAL IS COMING UP, SO GO GET SOME DATES)
- tonia
GUYS
Wednesday, May 26, 2010
I don't think I've done a post about the opposite gender yet. So here goes :)
It's interesting how different things appeal to different people, and how some aspects of a person are attractive to others, while a complete turn-off for others. I guess that kinda shows that since everyone think differently, and has conflicting views on things, its not really possible for everyone in the whole world to like you, so don't get too cut down when you find out that someone doesn't like you, because its pretty inevitable. Anyway, that is beside the point. GUYS.
I've always wanted to define hot guy and cute guys. What makes a guy hot and what makes a guy cute? I don't think that there really is a definition, and that its more of a first impression kind of thing. I guess for me :
HOT : I imagine those models in those really dodgy advertisements at the back of magazines that advertise like dating sites and stuff, where the guys are like built and the picture's taken in low light, and they have like olive oil all over them. And they're like cocky and they're good at sport, and they're bad-asses
CUTE : I've always thought of cute as the 'boy-next-door' kinda guy. They're nice, and they do wise things, and appearance-wise they're kinda dorky.
I'm not sure ... what do you guys think?
I don't even know why built guys are appealing. I don't particularly find it attractive when a guy is like completely ripped and stuff. Its dangerous as well. I mean, he could be hugging you, and without realising his own strength, stop your circulation.
But yeah, Oh! I also want to clarify, that for some reason the guys in the grade seem to think that the chicks really like deep and thoughtful guys who like to talk about philosophical stuff. Well, that is not true. Sometimes when they do that it just makes them even more fake, and kinda try hardy. I think that if a guy wants to get a girl, they should just keep it real. And by that, I don't mean pretend to keep it real, but ACTUALLY being themselves, and not worried about how other people think of them. Oh! And they have to be really nice as well.
I don't know though. I everyone likes different things. But yeah, if you like someone, you should ask them out/tell them you like them. Because you don't really have anything to lose. It may be a bit awkward at first, and slightly (or very) embarassing, but seriously. You never know if they like you back or not if you don't ask them. And like, if you get rejected, no one going to laugh at you. I mean, rejection happens to everyone. You'll get over it after a while. Time heals all wounds, and plus, you're probably not going to see most of the grade after 1.5 years. So don't be embarassed and start asking people out! (SEMI FORMAL IS COMING UP, SO GO GET SOME DATES)
- tonia